"Suicide bid spurred me to help others"

"Suicide bid spurred me to help others" "Suicide bid spurred me to help others"

A BOURNEMOUTH man who survived a suicide bid 17 years ago has spoken of his experience.

Paul Scates, 33, from Iford, wants to encourage a better understanding of those suffering from mental health illnesses.

He broke his back and fractured his pelvis after throwing himself from a first-floor window. Against all odds, he made a full recovery but was diagnosed with bipolar disorder.

Today is World Mental Health Day and Paul is keen to inspire others to accept and manage their illnesses.

As well as working part-time for the Dorset Mental Health Forum, he is a freelance creative events manager and has appeared on Channel 4’s The World’s Maddest Job Interview.

He said: “I live a very positive life and manage my illness, I still have bad days but I can work through them now with the right management plan, diet and exercise.

“I have proved that once you receive the correct treatment and appropriate support networks are in place people, like me, can lead successful lives.”

As well as helping set up self help groups in prison, Paul passes on his first-hand knowledge to the community, businesses, NHS practices and lectures medical students, as well as working with the police and army.

He said: “Despite preconceived ideas, I want to get the message out that just because someone has been diagnosed with a mental illness it does not mean their life is over or that they are dangerous to other members of the community.”

Comments(5)

Morrigan says...
12:39pm Wed 10 Oct 12

What a pity the poor man had to go to such extremes before he got the help he needed. What a bad reflection on the NHS and society in general :o(

Well done to him for managing to over come his condition. Far too many people with mental health are just happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves, sympathy seeking, but not wanting to do anything about it for themselves - and that I can say from experience of working with such people in the past ..... Good luck to him for the future!

rozmister says...
1:29pm Wed 10 Oct 12

Morrigan wrote:
What a pity the poor man had to go to such extremes before he got the help he needed. What a bad reflection on the NHS and society in general :o(

Well done to him for managing to over come his condition. Far too many people with mental health are just happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves, sympathy seeking, but not wanting to do anything about it for themselves - and that I can say from experience of working with such people in the past ..... Good luck to him for the future!
I know you probably mean well but it's comments like yours about how far too many people with mental health are happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves that stops people being open about their problems.

1 in 4 people will suffer a mental health problem in their lifetime and plenty of those people don't sit around feeling sorry for themselves.

Unless you've got a statistic which backs up your comment I really wouldn't go around making such ignorant sweeping statements. They're actually very damaging.

PS. From a recovered mental health sufferer who managed to graduate whilst unwell and now holds down 2 jobs working harder and more hours than plenty of people with no mental health issues whatsoever!

Rabbitman64 says...
5:01pm Wed 10 Oct 12

Morrigan wrote:
What a pity the poor man had to go to such extremes before he got the help he needed. What a bad reflection on the NHS and society in general :o(

Well done to him for managing to over come his condition. Far too many people with mental health are just happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves, sympathy seeking, but not wanting to do anything about it for themselves - and that I can say from experience of working with such people in the past ..... Good luck to him for the future!
As a Trustee of a Mental Health Charity your comment concerning ' happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves' does show a lack of understanding of the problems of people with mental health issues. Many Mental health sufferers are unable to leave the home because of the illness and need help to get them back into the functioning society!

portia6 says...
4:55am Thu 11 Oct 12

Saneness is a condition which we hope
to attain, madness is all around us look
at the news. A man abducts a child for
reasons no one understands. Local
politicians fight against each other
and Joe public have no say.

munchies says...
7:12am Thu 11 Oct 12

Morrigan wrote:
What a pity the poor man had to go to such extremes before he got the help he needed. What a bad reflection on the NHS and society in general :o(

Well done to him for managing to over come his condition. Far too many people with mental health are just happy to sit around feeling sorry for themselves, sympathy seeking, but not wanting to do anything about it for themselves - and that I can say from experience of working with such people in the past ..... Good luck to him for the future!
Lets all hope you do not work with people with mental health problems anymore with that attitude

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