New safety scheme set up in memory of Emily Longley (From Thisisdorset)

Great scheme,and every mother/aunt/grandmot
her/sister has a duty make sure that all young girls growing up should be clearly aware that no man has the right to make them a victim,any sign and walk away asap as they never change....and they go from one woman to the next.I have one daughter and she knows any stiuation i would be there and god help anyone that did anything to her.

why is it just a week long scheme, it should be taught at all schools and colleges always!

What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in?

I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

wimborne lady wrote:
What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in?

I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

Absolutely right, wimborne lady... the clubs and pubs which were named during the trial should be made to answer for their lack of diligence in checking the ages of their customers- or are they only interested in the bar takings?

Have Turner's "friends" come to their senses yet, do you think? Everyone knows who they are.They must have known what he was like. Let's hope every day is hell for him in prison.

I hope that part of this education programme will focus on the way men behave, too. If your son, brother or friend is disrespectful to women then they need educating and we all share responsibility for that.

wimborne lady wrote:
What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in?

I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

I don't think it would have made any difference - how would it have stopped him?

And in any case, there are family pubs and restaurants which even allow young children in so your comment about being "anywhere near" one and "allowing an underage girl in" isn't valid. I would also point out that at 17, anyone is allowed to drink wine or beer with a meal if they are with an adult and an adult buys them the drinks. Many of the pictures were taken at Cafe Shore whose main business is clearly to serve food. Children are often present there with their parents or relatives.

Adrian XX wrote:

wimborne lady wrote: What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in? I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

I don't think it would have made any difference - how would it have stopped him? And in any case, there are family pubs and restaurants which even allow young children in so your comment about being "anywhere near" one and "allowing an underage girl in" isn't valid. I would also point out that at 17, anyone is allowed to drink wine or beer with a meal if they are with an adult and an adult buys them the drinks. Many of the pictures were taken at Cafe Shore whose main business is clearly to serve food. Children are often present there with their parents or relatives.

I'm not saying it would have stopped it but we all know that drinking fuels jealousy and this man killed her in a jealous rage.

A few of the witness statements were from when he had been drinking in clubs in Bournemouth.

I do use clubs and pubs and am sometimes shocked (yes i am old!) at how obviously underage people get in.

Por Speller wrote:

wimborne lady wrote: What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in? I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

Absolutely right, wimborne lady... the clubs and pubs which were named during the trial should be made to answer for their lack of diligence in checking the ages of their customers- or are they only interested in the bar takings? Have Turner's "friends" come to their senses yet, do you think? Everyone knows who they are.They must have known what he was like. Let's hope every day is hell for him in prison. I hope that part of this education programme will focus on the way men behave, too. If your son, brother or friend is disrespectful to women then they need educating and we all share responsibility for that.

Get over yourselves. Pair of morons. I like every other normal person was trying to get into clubs from the age of 15yrs over 20 years ago. .
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Nearly every teenager without social problems does it yet when one person kills someone it's underage drinking and the clubs faults. Maybe he was just a bad guy.
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His mates maybe a bunch of spoilt idiots but they haven't killed anyone.

HRH of Boscombe wrote:

Por Speller wrote:

wimborne lady wrote: What shocked me about the case was that a lot of the photos were from clubs/ pubs and at 17 she should not have been anywhere near a club/pub. Hopefully somebody will look in to the security staff at these pubs/clubs for allowing and underage girl in? I know a lot of teenagers do get fake ID but surely a simple change in the ID they can use could maybe have stopped this lovely girl from her sad end?

Absolutely right, wimborne lady... the clubs and pubs which were named during the trial should be made to answer for their lack of diligence in checking the ages of their customers- or are they only interested in the bar takings? Have Turner's "friends" come to their senses yet, do you think? Everyone knows who they are.They must have known what he was like. Let's hope every day is hell for him in prison. I hope that part of this education programme will focus on the way men behave, too. If your son, brother or friend is disrespectful to women then they need educating and we all share responsibility for that.

Get over yourselves. Pair of morons. I like every other normal person was trying to get into clubs from the age of 15yrs over 20 years ago. . . Nearly every teenager without social problems does it yet when one person kills someone it's underage drinking and the clubs faults. Maybe he was just a bad guy. . His mates maybe a bunch of spoilt idiots but they haven't killed anyone.

Well lets hope all your family and friends are safe in the future then HRH of Boscombe - an me for one did not try from the age of 15 to get in to nightclubs - don't tar everyone with the same brush you are painted with.